| Do What You Say |
| Written by Astrid Engels |
| Thursday, 05 November 2009 14:39 |
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Ah love! One of life's greatest and most wonderful mysteries. And as long as there has been love, there have been arguments between the sexes. Men say they don't understand women. Women say men are insensitive. The battle continues with neither sex coming out ahead. Women have one complaint in particular in common.
Ah love! One of life's greatest and most wonderful mysteries. And as long as there has been love, there have been arguments between the sexes. Men say they don't understand women. Women say men are insensitive. The battle continues with neither sex coming out ahead. Women have one complaint in particular in common. One thing that has always baffled me about a certain percentage of the male species is their apparent inability to carryout promises that they make. Correction, the inability to follow through with promises that they make to a woman. For example: A guy may tell you that he will call you at a certain time, and more than likely he has no intention call you at all. In addition, he may also state that he will come by to see you at a specific time, or make plans with you to do something, and when the time does come he is nowhere to be found. The mystery surrounding this apparent lack of sensitivity is really quite puzzling not to mention annoying. The more curious and inquisitive women will demand to know why. Others just stew in silence, but they stew nonetheless. All differences between the sexes aside, there is no excuse for this apparent lack of sensitivity. Does it all come down to the fact that having to let a woman know they're running late or have had a change of plans remind them of having to report to their mothers when they were little? Well here's a news flash for the fellows; it has nothing to do with wanting to know where you are twenty four hours a day. Rather, it's simple concern. We worry when you don't call as expected. Guys who read this might say that women nag or bitch, but is that really true? In fact, the ones who see this as nagging or bitching must know that deep inside what is being said applies to them in some form or another. The offended person must know they are guilty of the accused crime. We've all heard that the truth hurts, and emotionally it does hurt, just as it does when you promise a woman that you are going to do one thing, and you turn around and do another that totally excludes her. How can someone believe that feels good? The answer? It doesn't! Then there is the question of respect. In fact, many of us have been stood up at least once in our lives and we know how painful it is. Good relationships begin with trust and honesty. This means that when involved with someone no matter on what level, love or friendship you should try never to hurt their feelings on purpose. Realistically we know that all relationships have problems, but why create something that is not there? So fellas, take this advice: A phone call, an email, a text or visit as promised is wonderful. It would be nice to know if we could count on it. Remember however, if you are not able to make it, let the lady know. This small precaution will demonstrate to her that she is in fact important to you. It may even prohibit you from losing what could be the most important thing in your life. About the Author: This post was written by the staff of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can find hundreds of helpful dating posts. |
